Ever feel like your life is a constant whirlwind of activities?
Much like the destruction violent weather causes is the damage to our homes and our families when we get too busy. Homes get trashed, family members struggle, and schedules get out-of -whack.
We must guard ourselves and our families from the storms of busy-ness - especially when it takes us away from things that matter most! A
wise man once said, "It's not enough to do things, we must do the right things."
The next task in our 2 week get-ourselves-under-control plan is to STOP the Storm of busy-ness and re-focus our lives on the right things, the things that matter most.
Here are some ideas:- Cancel Something! While your trying to re-claim your time and get yourself under control, you might need to post-pone, re-chedule or cancel some commitments or appointments. Is it really going to matter if you re-schedule that teeth cleaning until next month?
- Be Deliberate on what you spend your time on. Check your priorities. Are you spending the majority of your time on your highest priorities. Schedule the important things and follow through. Don't let outside activities or commitments to determine how you spend your days.
- Say No! Say No to outside tasks until you get a chance to feel caught up.
Remember - when you say YES to someone OUTSIDE of your family - you say NO to someone INSIDE your family
- Slow Down! Be aware of each activity your involved or task your performing. Force yourself to stop hurrying. It's okay to get less done - the tasks will never end. Enjoy the journey rather than rush thru to the finish line.
- Simplify! Get rid of clutter, get rid of unfinshed projects that don't add to your happiness. Just because it's cute or a cool thing to do doesn't mean you need it or need to be involved in it. Just because something is a good buy or on-sale doesn't mean we need to buy it! Everything we bring into our home comes with another price - upkeep and storage. Why is it so tempting to bring more and more into our homes? It just gives us more and more to clean, rearrange and store.
- Delegate! You don't have to do it all! Write down all your family members names on a piece of paper and divide up the tasks. Working together is one way to happiness in family life.
And last of all...
Never forget that a calm, peaceful MOTHER is a first step to a happy home.
Be sure to leave a comment and let me know what you did to calm the storms and stop the busies in your life. Get your name in our Free-Day Friday Give=Away!
