Many times during my life I have felt overwhelmed in my home and have blamed it on some circumstance that was happening to me: I’m too busy in school…I have small children… I have 4 boyz… teenage boys are so messy… this could go on my whole life and I’d always have an excuse.You gotta read this:
Don Aslett, a popular cleaning expert, tells about two schools he consulted for. In the first school after 425 children finished eating lunch- the cafeteria looked like a tornado hit – bits of food, plastic forks, and wrappers were everywhere! It took the janitor 2 hours to clean.This example really hits home. We have no excuses! It is not the circumstances that we are in that cause chaos in our homes; it’s that there isn’t effective systems in place & guess who in charge of getting systems in place?
In another school, in the same town, with the same floor plan, and 412 students - it took the janitor only 15 minutes to clean up.
The only difference between the two schools was the principal - the first principal allowed the students the freedom of eating and leaving a mess. However, the second principal set up a simple system and the rule that anything you mess up - you clean up.
It's true that we cannot keep up with our busy families – we cannot do EVERYTHING. But we can manage our family by setting up effective systems to create order and promote working together as a family.
If we want our homes to run smoothly, we need to get ourselves organized, get some simple systems in place, communicate the systems to our family, and follow thru - expecting them to do their part.
TODAY'S CHALLENGE - Choose ONE household responsibility that overwhelms you! IE dishes, laundry, getting kids off to school...Add a comment to let me know what it is and you get your name in the hat again!)
We'll be working on developing our household systems this week!












9 comments:
The laundry !!! It never goes away!! It drives me BONKERS!
Dishes! They never end! I can't wait until I own a dishwasher.
I've solved my most dreaded and overwhelming chore... LAUNDRY!! It was hard to do (and to be honest.. I did this a few years ago) but after going to work full time and no one helping me even though I asked repeatedly I showed up to our family night with shiny new laundry baskets for all children over the age of 12! I announced that I would no longer do their laundry. I'm sure they thought I was joking... but I was not. Now, a few years later, I realize that not only was it the best thing for me, it was the best thing for them. Here the miracles that occured:
-they take care of their clothes
-they NEVER ask me where an item of their clothing is
-they keep their laundry in their hamper; not all over the floor
-they don't throw clean clothes in the laundry
-they know how to do their laundry when they go to college/mission
I swear by this... cut your kids off-- they will be better for it and you will be sane! :)
I am absolutely NOT a morning person, so getting the kids off to school is really hard, and they are not always the ones who make us late. I try to jam most of the morning routine in too small of a time frame. So I'm thinking that needs to be my focus, as we start back to school!
Great idea Judy! My sister does that too - we have to remember we are training these kiddies to be responsible adults. Love it!
Laura - oh I'm soooorrrry about no dishwasher - my answer for you is PAPER GOODS from Cosco :0). Hang in there! Hopefully Andy is a good dish-scrubber!
Constantantly picking up after everyone in the house. BTY I bought a new binder with tabs and calander and shabby miss Jen Wolff has inspired me to make a cute cover for it. Thanks for the motivation. Jill
Okay Joy- you know ALL my secret dreaded tasks but by far LAUNDRY is the worst (you know that too!). We are starting the new year off with individual laundry duty for all over the age of 12. It worked a few years ago for Haley and somehow I forgot about it-- Thanks for motivating me to try again. :-)
laundry is never ending for me but manageble. My problem is the constant toys scattered all about the house no matter how many organization systems, bins etc... I try to implement. So frustrating.
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